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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 2, 2009 21:59:38 GMT -6
Beautiful and Amazing... wow... so am I, so is my aunt... so are a lot of people. way to be specific. Come now, you're "in love", you can do better than that.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 2, 2009 22:06:46 GMT -6
 THE DANGER MAGNET : alright, fine.
THE DANGER MAGNET : she's funny and sweet and she always knows the little things she can do to make me smile. she's forgiving, at least to me, and probably too forgiving when it comes to me.
THE DANGER MAGNET : she's very passionate in more ways than one. she can cook way better than i can.
THE DANGER MAGNET : i absolutely love the way she rests her head against my chest when we're falling asleep. it makes me feel needed. i need more than just sex in my life, i need to know that i'm needed.
THE DANGER MAGNET : enough for you?
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 2, 2009 22:19:03 GMT -6
Aww she's funny and sweet and cooks better than you. Again, not too specific. See that's what bugs me. People in love focus on generalized good qualities that millions of other people have. The only thing that truly makes her unique to you is that you love her. And if you truly love someone, you don't need a piece of paper to prove it to the world. A piece of paper that legally binds you to that person, a contract. Marriage turns love into a business deal.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 2, 2009 22:24:42 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : you're right, i can't pinpoint why it is i love her, all i know is that i do.
THE DANGER MAGNET : and yes, that might be true, but many people do want to get married and have their own family. whether it's for tax benefits like you said or because they actually love each other, well, that's their business.
THE DANGER MAGNET : why do i want a "piece of paper binding us together" i don't know. all i know is that both of us do.
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 2, 2009 22:32:04 GMT -6
You love her because you love her, I can buy that. It's naive to try to guess the future. By signing that contract you're gambling that nothing can change the way you two feel about each other.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 2, 2009 22:36:29 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : again, you're right, but it's a gamble i'm willing to take.
THE DANGER MAGNET : first of all, seeing what we've gone through, well, if that didn't change her mind about me i doubt anything will.
THE DANGER MAGNET : and second of all, my parents have been married over twenty years and they're still head over heels in love and they're best friends. it does happen.
THE DANGER MAGNET : not to say they don't fight, because they do, but just because they fight doesn't mean they don't care.
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 2, 2009 22:40:05 GMT -6
But way make the bet when you can just be together? And there's plenty that can change. What if you guys have a child that is killed and in her grief she blames you and then can't look at you without thinking about the death of her only child, looking at you could literally make her sick. That's happened too.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 2, 2009 22:45:56 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : aren't all good things in life worth the risk?
THE DANGER MAGNET : honestly, i couldn't tell you what would happen then because it hasn't happened yet.
THE DANGER MAGNET : though i would probably end up blaming myself, too.
THE DANGER MAGNET : if it ever happens - which i pray it doesn't - i'll let you know.
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 2, 2009 22:51:16 GMT -6
But you don't need to add that risk to the others.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 7, 2009 20:46:32 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : again, it's one i'm willing to take.
THE DANGER MAGNET : i know myself well enough to know that if we did have a child who was killed, i would blame myself regardless of whether she did or not.
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 7, 2009 23:12:19 GMT -6
Well of course you would, that wasn't the point. The point was you never know what will happen so why try to control it by turning it into a legally binding contract. But hey, congratulations my dear fellow on signing your life away.
Other than your prenuptuals, what else can tickle your fancies?
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 7, 2009 23:52:07 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : believe me, i'm more than ready to sign my life away.
THE DANGER MAGNET : oh, this and that. not much of it's all that important, or if it is i doubt you'd find it entertaining.
THE DANGER MAGNET : why don't you tell me a bit about you. why are you so set against this whole marriage deal, other than what you already told me?
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 7, 2009 23:56:21 GMT -6
It would be cruel to sign me off to just one man, down right vicious of me. As for about me, I'm not so much of a share over the net kind of girl but if I were to try... I go by Widow and I like deep reds, beer is gross but Mike's Hard is heaven.
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Post by Jason Irving on Nov 7, 2009 23:59:11 GMT -6
THE DANGER MAGNET : ah, i see. you don't like to be tied down. but when you're with someone and it means something, it's amazing.
THE DANGER MAGNET : hm, that's interesting. to the point, i suppose.
THE DANGER MAGNET : i've found out that for me, drinking is not a good thing to do.
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Post by Wendy "Widow" Hughes on Nov 8, 2009 0:03:33 GMT -6
Why lock down when flying free is so much fun?
And seriously? Drinking's good for everyone, shows their true colors. Not the alcohols fault if the truth's ugly.
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